1. She does not listen to her parents when they tell her that the outlands are dangerous and that she should never go there, however she gets angry when her father doesn't trust her. How will he trust toi if toi keep being disobedient?
2. The fact that she knows nothing about self defence and sucks as a fighter (I assume) doesn't stop her from going to the outlands. (I'm talking about the teenager Kiara who "can" think logically). Why would toi go to a dangerous place when toi can't protect yourself in the first place? Pretty much everyone can outmatch her.