Is anyone else fed up with this?

The Vampire Diaries were one of the first serious livres I've ever read. I grew up with these epic loves that gave me comfort that someday I'm going to feel that way too.

I loved the original series. Stelena l’amour was so magical. Because of them, and couples similar to them, I grew up believing that l’amour can beat everything, and that true l’amour never dies.

She pulled away from Damon, knocking those cool fingertips aside. She looked straight at him.
"I've already found what I want," she a dit brutally. "And who I want to be with forever." - It was always about this for me. Her loving him more, wanting to be with him forever and the fact she always knew with who she's supposed to end up with. After all the bumps in the road, after her possible feelings about Damon, she would close her eyes and the first thing that would pop up in her head would be Stefan. And she would know.. it's always been him.

I was so excited for Nightfall. Nightfall has one of my favori citations from all the books: Elena ignored all this. “If he’s alive, I can find him.”
“If he remembers you. But what if every memory he had of toi were taken away?”
“What?” Elena wanted to explode. “If every memory of Stefan were taken away from me,” she a dit icily, “I would still fall in l’amour with him the very moment I saw him. And if every memory of me were taken away from Stefan, he would wander all over the world looking for something without knowing what he was looking for.” I was kinda happy, because I felt that after all this time L.J knew that they're supposed to be together, and that what she created was so beautiful that should never been ruined.

Imagine my surprise when I went to see the reviews for Midnight. All the unhappy Stelena fans. I couldn't read the book, but I was feeding myself with spoilers, and I just couldn't understand why? Why would she do something like that, why would she break them apart, why would she make her be with Damon. And why would she say she