i'm the same way when it comes to a big crowd, but once toi start chant its like no one is there and toi are chant your cœur, coeur out and when toi finish its like, WHOA I CAN'T BELIEVE I JUST DID THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was like that 2,i just started chant a little bit around people at work and sometimes they would complement me on my chant and sometimes they would rejoindre in and sing with me if it was a song they knew.you just have to break yourself in slowly,singing a little bit here and a little bit there.
Trust me, it starts out like that. When I used to perform solos as a kid, the first time I ever did it was the most nerve wracking experience ever. On auditioning jour i was shaking like crazy, but that was because I was alone in a room of all men. But when toi are in front of a huge croud like in an auditorium, as soon as toi start, toi start and the whole experience feels blurry. toi don't remember a thing until toi are done, then toi are just like "DID I REALLY JUST DO THAT?". It's what happened to me. I actually got to carried away shivering back stage that the MC had to call me after she announced my name again.
My main advice, don't tell yourself don't be nervous. It's actually scientifically proven that when toi tell yourself don't be nervous toi become plus nervous. Just take a deep breath and say "if toi are nervous, that's fine, everyone get's nervous" I swear it works!
I don’t tell anyone I’m nervous. I let my mind go blank as I walk out. I don’t allow myself to think it nor feel it ou anything ou else I get super nervous. Then I’m a lot less nervous. Lol. I can’t get rid of it completely even though my job is public speaking and I’m never nervous there.