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i need help!!

Ok im 16 soon to be 17 and um... Yeah im a virgin... But the problem is that my boyfriend suddenly wants to have sex.. And he tells me he loves me and that he wants me to be all his and him all mine but I don’t feel ready.. When we are making out it always ends up with him in haut, retour au début of me and me saying (yelling) stop!! I really want my first time to be special... Not in a sofa... And I do l’amour him but I don’t think he is the right one I want to give my virginity to. I would really appreciate some conseil please I don’t know what to do…
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THANK toi GUYS SO MUCH!! AND SERIOULSY IM TAKING EVERYBODY'S conseil THANKYOU AGAIN =)
pkrebelde posted il y a plus d’un an
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aww leave him
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Say what u think is right listen to what ur heat says and say it to him
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luinwen said:
If toi don't feel ready, don't do it ou you'll be regreting it always, I understand toi don't want your first time o be on the sofa ou the back of the car, talk with him tell him how toi feel, if he really loves toi he'll understand, if it stays the same Ithink it will be best if toi leave him, a boyfriend that is trying to make toi do something toi don't want is not a good BF, is your body toi decide when to have sex and with whom, good luck ^^
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I absolutely agree. Never feel like toi should have to do anything that makes toi uncomfortable in order to keep him. If he leaves toi because toi aren't ready, then fuck him. But if he understands and is willing to wait for you, then fabulous. NEVER let any man do anything with toi that toi don't like. If you're constantly having to yell stop, that's not a good sign.
Cinders posted il y a plus d’un an
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Addendum: I think it's wise to mention here that par "fuck him" I meant in the colloquial way, not in the literal way. I meant that he's not worth your time. ;o) In case that was misconstrued at all.
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Dude, quit wasting ur time. If u can't talk bout this stuff then leave. This a spot where we r ALLOWD to talk bout sex, sex, fcking, sex, and fcking. Get used to it
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pashcpt7418 said:
Let me tell toi something very important. Probably this might not make a different. However, I believed that it could help toi further in the end. I know that your boyfriend is tempting you, trying to turn toi on and every thing! However, if toi feel that as toi say, “I do l’amour him but I don’t think he is the right one I want to give my virginity to.” toi are not only fooling him, your fooling yourself as well. If toi are not ready to have an intimate relationship right now, do not have one at all. I would suggest that toi breakup with that relationship, before it breaks toi up. With your question, toi are not just telling me that toi do not want to be with your boyfriend, toi are also telling me that toi are not ready for a long-term relationship. toi need to focus on yourself first; build yourself first before toi can build others. toi will never be able to l’amour others, if toi do not learn to l’amour yourself first! Best regards.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
sapherequeen said:
Well, if I were toi I would just continue to say no. If you're not ready, then you're not ready. Just keep doing the right thing and wait for that special someone is all I can say :)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
estefy said:
toi should tell him how toi feel, if he really loves toi then he won`t do anything that gives toi grief ou that you`re not ready to do. if he leaves toi then he isn`t worth it. sex should be something that toi enjoy not something that toi have to worry about. toi can`t rush yourself ou your body. your first time should be special, no doubt, and it should be something that you`ll remember fondly
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
lorette said:
he's a virgin?./..so ..you should do what toi want!.. don't let him do what he want from you.!!! maybe he doesn't loves toi ! toi should stay away for a time ! i think so..
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
shomill said:
Let me tell toi something: if a guy is desperate to have sex with you, he'll say anything, absolutely ANYthing to get toi to do it, including "I l’amour you, I want to be with toi always, I want to marry you." Tell him that if he really loves you, he can wait until you're damn good and ready!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
want2watcheroes said:
Just do it when it feels right. Men are too horny and they may say anything to make toi have sex with them lol.
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bee--123 said:
if he wants it tell him u want it to be special
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
LabraLege said:
Your virginity is all yours, and he can't control it the way he wants without your opinion. And toi have one: do it with someone special and he is not a right person. Think with your head. Don't let him to think for you
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
vider69 said:
He sounds like a person who is trying to rush toi into something that toi are not ready for yet and if he did l’amour toi he'd have plus respect for your feelings, be straight up with him and firm, tell him how toi feel, what toi do and don't want and if he doesn't get that, then he's only after one thing.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Earthgirl13 said:
If toi don't feel ready. DON'T DO IT. Also look at stuff like do toi want to have a future with him? He'll wait if you're important to him.
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gossipgirlxoxo said:
If you're not ready then toi need to tell him that an if he really did l’amour toi he would respect your decision.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Quiztzhadrch said:
Ok, I'm gonna break from everyone else and say DO IT! Why? Because toi want to and toi know toi want to and all toi want to hear are reasons to the contrary because you're just scared! Unless toi plan on saving it until marriage (bad idea par the way!) no amount of waiting ou velvet drapes ou cutesy stuff will help make it any easier. There will be NO perfect setting for it. Sure, plus comfortable, ou plus private ou whatever, but when it comes down to it, its always the same. He'll do toi and soon after break up with toi because he'll realize he's too young (and toi are too) to commit to a steady relationship! If you're considering having sex then toi are ready to make the decision to do it. Again, it just sounds to me like toi want to hear all the reasons why not... just to go ahead and do it anyway! These obvious questions are just frustrating!
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Ok, I'm gonna break from everyone else and say DO IT! Why? Because toi want to and toi know toi want to and all toi want to hear are reasons to the contrary because you're just scared! Unless toi plan on saving it until marriage (bad idea par the way!) no amount of waiting ou velvet drapes ou cutesy stuff will help make it any easier. There will be NO perfect setting for it. Sure, plus comfortable, ou plus private ou whatever, but when it comes down to it, its always the same. He'll do toi and soon after break up with toi because he'll realize he's too young (and toi are too) to commit to a steady relationship! If you're considering having sex then toi are ready to make the decision to do it. Again, it just sounds to me like toi want to hear all the reasons why not... just to go ahead and do it anyway! These obvious questions are just frustrating!
posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I disagree with a few things in your answer. First of all, toi make too many assumptions. You're assuming that she wants to do it, when she's clearly stated that she's told him to stop and he hasn't listened. I agree that if two people want to have sex with each other, and they both feel they are emotionally and psychologically mature enough to deal with all the consequences of that, then they should go for it. But from the sound of it, she doesn't sound like she wants to do it at all. Also, toi a dit that "if you're considering having sex then toi are ready to make the decision and to do it." This isn't true. When I was with my first boyfriend, I considered sleeping with him, but I didn't, and to be honest, I was glad that I didn't because he was a sleezeball. So everything toi a dit is not always true, and I don't think that this question is "obvious" at all. Remember, everyone is different. Everyone matures sexually at their own pace in their own way. And telling your boyfriend to stop when he keeps going is NOT a sign that toi want to have sex, at least it's not to me. Also-- It's OK to be scared. So long as toi know what you're afraid of, and what toi should do with that fear.
Cinders posted il y a plus d’un an
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ok, everything toi just a dit is fine but I gave the male perspective. so right off the bat I knew one of toi chicks would disagree immediately, so no surprises here. if a chick tells me she wants me to stop then proceeds to pleasure me, then its ON LIKE DONKEY KONG! and about your sleezebag boyfriend; THAT'S why he was your boyfriend, thats what deep down toi dug about him.. that he was bad, something was wrong with him ect.. deny all this if toi want but again: you're not a guy and we know what works.
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Ps. if there are any final words on the matter..
Quiztzhadrch posted il y a plus d’un an
taylorRFan said:
Um...... Dont do it till ur maryed ou have been 2gether for plus than 3 ou 4 years....... u dont want to be labled the school slut.... wich ur probably not bu still that would be really bad.......ya, plus toi dont want to end up with a kid untill ur out of collage. =^-^=
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
princess829 said:
First of all, u need 2 tell yr bf the truth. u need 2 tell him that u l’amour him and everything but u don't think it's right. if he starts getting like mad ou anything, calm him down and then somehow in that time, tell him that u don't think he is the right one 2 have sex with. don't make him feel bad about himself ou anything-cuz that always makes everything bad. but then if things just plain go really bad, break up. because at least u know u did the right thing and toi won't regret getting pregant. because you'll know when the time is right. and hey-don't get down on yourself. toi did everything u could. be proud of yourself!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
lover09 said:
its up to toi if toi dont want sex tell your boyfriend and if he loves toi he'll wait and if he dosent he dosent l’amour you
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
stephmfan215 said:
i think that no matter what, dont do it. if u already know u dont want to, then ull regret it later. a lot of ppl think they WANT to have it and then regret it. ur already against it. tell him that ur not at all ready for it. say u want it 2 b special. tell him everything. and if hes a good boyfriend then he'll understand. and if he gets mad about it then dont blame urself cuz if u know ur not ready, then ur not ready. if this keeps happening then u may need to go to the point of telling him that u cant keep going out w him if he keeps doing that.

i hope this helps!!!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
POYNETTEHATERZ said:
ok, i Lost mine in a car okay tell him that toi want to wait and that if keeps on going on haut, retour au début of you. toi should say that toi don't want him right now and that toi still l’amour him and wait like in the prom time. okay hope u follow my adive
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
jeftelover said:
tell him that your not ready.he wont make
toi have sex with him.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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toi realize this topic is a an old right? o.0
CornChips posted il y a plus d’un an
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oh............bye bye!
jeftelover posted il y a plus d’un an
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Now it's 3 yrs old! :)
PonygirlCurtis7 posted il y a plus d’un an
sandiphardy said:
do toi had squeeze boobs?
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
platelook said:
toi sound like a smart girl and seem to know right from wrong and what toi want,so keep going with that gut feeling toi seem to have about him.if it doesnt feel right and toi dont think he is the one then stay the course.you might also want to think about maybe ending this relationship.i am not telling toi what to do i am just saying that might be what has to happen.there are guys out there who will understand and respect toi and your decisions trust me.
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kenzie001704 said:
lay the ground tell him ur feelings if he dont agreee figue something out comprimise
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