I am curious.

I heard this scenario recently. Apparently a girl (who was in her early 20s) was proposed to par a guy. The thing about it is the guy and the girl both agreed to live in their parents place. The guy was planning on waiting until he was done paying off his student loans. Until then could he marry the girl. The student loans would have taken about 20 years to pay it off. So basically she was literally planning on waiting 20 years to marry this guy after the student loans were paid off in his parent's house. They both had a religious background (Both being the minister's child of some church). So they wanted to save themselves for marriage before being intimate. The girl then goes on an conseil montrer to then ask what could she do to make the guy commit faster. Mind toi she was already in a relationship with the guy for 7 years hence.


TL;DR Basically she wanted conseil so she could marry a guy way before he was done paying off his loans.

My question is what would toi have advise her?