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Help! I need conseil on how to tell my non christian bf that I won't have sex until I'm married

Yes, I'm posting this in plus than one spot because I need some help. I don't expect to actually find real conseil on this spot though, but it's worth a try... It doesn't matter whether you're christian ou not, I want as much conseil as I can.

Hi, I'm a 20 years old christian and I've been dating a guy who's not christian for about a month. Whenever we're together we cuddle and Kiss and I can see that he wants us to go further and have sex (which is the most normal thing for a couple nowadays), but even if I also want to, I always stop it there because I don't want to have sex until I'm married.

How can I tell him in the smoothest possible way? I just don't want him to be mad at me. If he can't stand this and wants to break up, that's okay because this is important for my beliefs but I just don't want him to get angry... We haven't talked about religion at all yet.
 Vertigo42 posted il y a plus d’un an
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herpinaderpson said:
Just go ahead and tell him right away.
If he actually loves you, he will understand. If he pesters toi about having sex, maybe it's the time to find another guy.
I also am non-christian, and if I were a guy, I would respect my gf.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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That's almost exactly what I was going to say.
Hamuko posted il y a plus d’un an
summer2987 said:
just go up too him and say

"bitch toi aint getting non of dis till theres a damn ring on my finger . "

and if he starts with that " but babe i l’amour toi "

slap him , and slap him hard , because if he tries to stop toi from doing what toi think is right , ou what toi think is comfortable then he does'nt l’amour toi at all .


easy as pie .
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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being an illiterate chienne 101
polarwagon15 posted il y a plus d’un an
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summer2987 posted il y a plus d’un an
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no need to cuss .
summer2987 posted il y a plus d’un an
mish_mish said:
tell him toi dont wanna do it before marriage....and if he's only with u for sex...well then good riddance!
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sarabeara said:
First off, I commend toi on your resolve and sticking to your beliefs.

Now for the conseil part. Other than honesty and trust, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Just be direct with him and tell him how you're feeling. If he doesn't respect your beliefs and gets angry then he's a douche and toi should be glad toi found out the type of person he is. toi should probably have this talk with him sooner rather than later, because toi don't want him to feel as if toi were leading him on ou anything.
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MineTurtle said:
Just say 'no'! Yeah, I know it's easier a dit than done, but it will be worth it.
Any guy that truly loves you, will respect that wish and wait.
If he refuses to respect your wish, then the relationship's not worth it.
I know that sounds harsh, but if toi keep going, it could hurt the both of you. (Physically, spiritually and emotionally).
Hope that helps!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
CameronLovesNny said:
dude if ur bf only wants sex than just wait until God works his mysterious ways to find a perfect bf for u so yeah pray tht ur bf will understand and tht he will not pressure u into having sex with him thts just wrong tht he keeps asking u n not understanding also i'm a satanist so yeah i am a satanist a good one
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
zanhar1 said:
Just tell him how toi feel. It's your body and your religion toi get to decide when you're ready. If he loves toi he will understand and respect your decision.
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boytoy_84 said:
See my answer :
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See my answer : http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/sex-and-sexuality/answers/show/479251/help-how-tell-non-christian-boyfriend-dont-want-sex-until-im-married
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