i agree bullying is stupid but like its never going to go away. its been a thing since the beginning of time, there will always be one asshole in the world and nothing will change that ok people feel the need to hurt others and stuff and its never ever going to go away ok im not siding with bullies because no i have anxiety and i get bullied everyday but its not going to stop and its a natural cycle of life everyone gets bullied if theyre not deemed 'perfect' par society in someway ou another and in fact i think the biggest bully to me is myself i hate myself plus than anyone else hates me and i torture myself about it everyday so even if no one ever bullied me id still have awful self-esteem and beat myself up about it so its not a thing that goes away just because a few people stand against it ok
can we even be sure what bullying is nowadays? the term is used so loosely at times that i think we've Lost connection as to what it is and what kind of environment that causes it to develop not to mention the giant question of how do we stop it. we cannot predict who is getting picked on due to the victim's tendencies to hide their problems. we can't necessarily target a bully directly either, as they are also at risk just as much as the victims are (as in chances are they were bullied at some point in their lives as well)
as someone who's been both bullied and the bully i speak from experience that this isn't something that can be easily stopped. i quit being mean mainly because i realized that what i did to others i would never do to myself ou others(as in family members). i was angry to my Friends when i should be grateful they even stuck around. i still count myself lucky that i didn't stay that way and stopped while i was still young. many kids aren't going to have that chance.
this isn't a problem that can be just pushed away. rather before actually targeting it we should experiment, analyze, and research on the causes bullying and treatments towards the problem
It may be the dark side of humanity, and heck...it's not going away anytime soon, but so what? Does that mean we should just give up and let Evil rule?
Like crime...there's always gonna criminals, but does that stop a cop from doing whats right? Does it stop em from standing up against em? NO.
Just cuz its part of the world don't mean we gotta "deal with it". An Evil such as bullying has no right to exist, and one day...ONE DAY, all Evil will end.
Oh, no, I quite disagree! Bullying does wonderful things for us, such as building character and giving our lonesome selves things to do other than wallow in self pity and shame, which is a good thing indeed. If only everyone saw the positive effects of bullying! So what if it's at the expense of others?
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Before anyone gets cheesed off at me... I'm being sarcastic...
Don't get me wrong, its bad and all, I've thought of suicide and what not, but (for me) it actually reinforces that they give enough of a damn to actually pick on me. It's hard to explain.
"Bullying" is part of animal behaviour, it always has been, and always will be. The bigger loup picked on the smaller wolf. I'm not saying it isn't bad. It will just aways be there sadly, it's just part of being an animal.
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Yeah but humans aren't wild bests. And actually....bullying won't always be there--it's not eternal u know
Sorry but I don't believe u. Badness? What the heck do u think Evil is? Dude...if Evil wasn't real, people would know only Good. But yeah people often choose the Evil path (same as what u said, so I do agree with u there)
That's the way society is nowadays and always will be, we can't change how people are when it comes down to this, that person has to figure his/her problems out on there own if they want to get anywhere in life. Yes I agree that it should stop but what else do toi want schools to do about it? Teachers do all they can, don't make it seem like there job is any harder then what it has to be.
