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So about this guy...

Was it alright for me to tell my friend the honest truth on how I really felt about him even though I have a boy friend? I mean I sort of have a crush on him and I can't believe it. Why did he have to go and ask me that if I didn't have a boy friend that would I like him plus then just a friend? I really honestly l’amour my boy friend though. My boy friend is the best. I l’amour my boy friend with all of my heart. I must be so terrible. How could I possibly have a crush on another guy if I already have such a wonderful boy friend? I mean I am not going to cheat on him, cause I'm not the cheating type. I told him that I would never cheat. Should I even talk to this friend of mine anymore? It makes me really happy to talk to him. I thought about also telling my boy friend about it, but he may just think I'm cheating, get his feelings hurt and break up with me. He's such a good boy friend though and he's always been very good and faithful to me. I just l’amour him so much. I feel terrible. What should I do about all of this? I already told the other guy how much I l’amour my boy friend and that we could never be plus then just friends.
 MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
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TheOnlyBoss said:
well i think that even though toi might say toi l’amour ur boyfriend i think u should follow ur cœur, coeur and be with that guy and tell ur boyfriend the truth.. also follw ur heart*
hope that helps:)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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No, that's not what I'm saying. I l’amour my boy friend and I don't want to be with that other guy. I l’amour my boy friend the most. I'm just wondering that why all of sudden I get a crush on some other guy? Is it even possible to still be in l’amour with your boy friend, while accidentally having a crush someone else? I want to be with my boy friend, not him.
MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
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TheOnlyBoss, ofcourse it's just my opinion but i don't think breaking up with somebody everytime toi have a crush is the way to go :P
coriann posted il y a plus d’un an
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MewStrawberry, toi have a crush, that does not make toi a bad person :)
coriann posted il y a plus d’un an
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Its not like I'm going to break up with my boy friend. I feel that in my cœur, coeur that I know he's the one who means plus to me. I just felt guilty for having a crush on that guy that's all and thinking of how my boy friend would feel about it. I really l’amour my boy friend the most though. I only like this guy and it was just like a crush. I think he might still like me though.
MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
coriann said:
It's an attraction sweetie, it happens all the time. If toi beak up with your boyfriend and be with the guy, toi will still l’amour toi boyfriend and have to get over him. If toi stay with your boyfriend toi will probably feel a little something for the guy but that's alright. An attraction happens automatically without us trying, l’amour is a choice that toi make only when toi felt you've found the right person and toi are also attracted to them, lol, cause if toi weren't attracted to them then that would defeat the whole purpose, anyways, toi already know who toi are attracted to, now it's the time to figure out who toi want to love, who toi want to be with and stay faithful too ^ ^
toi are not a horrible person, just a mammal who is bound par such feelings as love, it's just as natural as being hungry ou needing to pee, now ofcourse this is just my opinion, i could be wrong but it's still always good to try to help, good luck sweetie ^ ^
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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i hope toi gained "something" useful from this, MDR
coriann posted il y a plus d’un an
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Thank you.
MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
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any time :)
coriann posted il y a plus d’un an
Me-Iz-Here said:
its totally normal to have crushes on other people, dont worry about it
the crush will most likely go away soon, just wait it out and continue to be Friends with the guy!! no need to mess anything up here
and if toi wanna talk to your boyfriend ou not it's your choice (shouldnt really matter), but he should understand and be fine with it. if he isn't, then he's not a good boyfriend anyway
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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If I told my boy friend about this...Well he is a depressed, Bipolar and Schizophrenic guy. So he could get hurt easily. He may think that he's worthless and not good enough for me. He always gets like that, but I guess I don't have to tell him about it. I just felt guilty that's all ou is okay to just keep this a secret? I would really rather not say anything, because this is just a crush after all. I'm not in l’amour with the other guy.
MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
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if toi think it's best not to tell him, toi dont have to! after all, it's not a huge thing. attraction to other people is just natural, no need to feel too guilty.
Me-Iz-Here posted il y a plus d’un an
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I think I might decide to just not say anything. He already thinks that he's not good enough for me, which I keep reassuring him that he is. So that would just crush him even plus to tell him what happened and may get the wrong idea. I'm getting so sick of a lot of guys coming on to me lately. I know they can't help how they feel about me, but geez...And then out of all of those other guys. I just happen to crush on this very one at the moment. I hate all of this pressure from so many guys.
MewStrawberry posted il y a plus d’un an
laura199627 said:
If it makes toi happy to talk to your friend, well go ahead. Life is about making things that make toi happy. And if toi have special feelings for him, follow your heart. But if toi really really l’amour your boyfriend, toi decide.
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