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Sorry to bother toi but I really need to get this off my chest (literally). So I know every girls dream is to have big boobs but for me it's the opposite. I'm 14 and I am a size 10DD, I have the biggest boobs in my whole an and I hate it. They really annoy me especially during P.E. I'm really insecure about them and I find that men that are way older than me and boys my age are always staring at my chest and I absolutely hate it, it makes me feel really self-conscious. I have heard of people wrapping material around them to sort of squash them but I don't know. Help please :(
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I NEVER WANT BIG CHESTS DX
prussiaducky posted il y a plus d’un an
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^ don't be an asshole man, it's not gross it's just natural. you're making her feel worse.
brandonaz posted il y a plus d’un an
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Thank toi so much for all your help guys, it means a lot to me, this goes to everyone who answered
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Makeupdiva said:
I get insecurities. I get insecure about myself as well. There isn't much toi can do about it except get a breast reduction but I don't recommend toi get one cause of your age and the fact that it will empty your parents account. The only think I guess toi could do if there are men staring at toi is to ignore it, if it makes toi feel really uncomfortable, walk away find your Friends and stay with them until toi have to go home. I get stared at all the time, but I generally ignore it ou at least try too. I've never heard of any material that toi could emballage, wrap around your chest with. Just be healthy and exercise regularly. Don't your breast size get toi down, as I a dit not much toi could do. But if it still bothers toi than go speak to your doctor about it, maybe he ou she could give toi some tips on what to do, don't stress yourself over it.
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AlOoOosh said:
I guess toi must a doctor and he absolutely is going to help toi with it :)
There are medications for that ..
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ssook78 said:
oh uh i dont want big boobs but wear a big big big t-shirt at p.e ou if toi have a uniform thing ask the teacher for a very very big t-shirt
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jester616 said:
What you've heard of is girls using first aid wraps, like you'd use for a sprained ankle, to bind down their breasts, and I've heard it's very uncomfortable. Have toi tried wearing a sports bra? Those tend to provide the most support and minimize the size.

Because of your age, a doctor is unlikely to perform surgery, but if there is stress on your back, which is likely, and your family has insurance, surgery would be covered in that circumstance as it's not done for only cosmetic purposes.

As for men and boys staring, they will do that, regardless of how young toi actually are. I know it's hard to ignore, but I think the conseil to stick with your friends, if possible, is the best for now. toi will gain plus confidence as toi get older. Sorry that this is not much help for now.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
XxTheBeatlesxX said:
Well people out and out tell me that I have a big butt and I just ignore them even though it kinda bothers me. I just put up with it. I'm not gonna do anything about it. But breasts are a whole different thing kinda. Yeah it makes toi uncomfortable when they stare, I get that. I don't think toi should worry about it unless it's causing toi physical pain (like back pain ou something). Otherwise, just tough it out I guess. I'll support you!
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hetalianstella said:
Have toi tried wearing a sports bra? It will flatten them out and make them appear smaller.
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prussiaducky said:
lose weight, I'm serious .___. 14 an olds don't naturally get a big chest >.> no offense, but it isn't healthy to have all of that extra weight. Lose weight....and you're bust will get smaller. Tell me your height and weight (yet again, I'm not trying to be mean)
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... I had that chest size naturally when I was 14 and I'm underweight... .___.; *le just throwing that sorta thing out there*
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Book-Freak said:
What countries bra size system is that? Can toi possibly convert it to UK system, because I have no idea how big 10DD is in UK sizes.

As for toi thinking their too big... Wear Sports Bras instead of wrapping them down as it's plus comfortable and looks better I think. Also, I don't mean to be rude, but are toi slightly overweight? Because weight can effect bra size.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
kakalover said:
I feel toi girl. I'm 5'3" and I'm a 38DD It's hard, and I totally get your insecurity. It can be rough. I always used to be so self-conscious because I could feel the stares of all the guys that go to my school. But toi know what? I had to learn to accept it. God doesn't make mistakes. I used to cry myself to sleep because I felt so horrible, and I had back pains and shit. But toi know, there's always doctors that can help toi out m'dear.

--GiGi Ingenario
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KohakuJSMA said:
no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either...

(random XD!)
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 no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either... (random XD!)
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shadowlover3000 said:
At least yours aren't 36A.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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EXACTLY
XxKeithHarkinxX posted il y a plus d’un an
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I'd prefer for them to be small because I do a lot of horse riding and small boobs would be much plus convenient.
H-roxy posted il y a plus d’un an
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True, I sneak through fences and tight spaces, so it helps xD
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laura199627 said:
Don´t be insecure. I mean many girls would like to have your boobs size (like toi said) and others no. toi can´t change your body. And, almost every boy stares at every girl´s boobs.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
CielXlizzy19 said:
Yeah, same with me.

Though, I'm at that age where most girls my age are flat-chested, so walking around with a REAL chest (32C), even teachers stare at me.....

....I just don't like it. .____.
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8theGreat said:
I understand your situation perfectly.
I know that it's tough, but toi have to learn to accept that about you. I don't really like my boobs either, and I'm roughly the same size as you.

toi absolutely do not want to squish your boobs down with anything. That is extremely damaging and is a whole heck of a lot plus painful than it's worth. I did it once, and it felt like I was dying. Seriously.

Just learn to accept and l’amour it as part of who toi are. That's all toi can do, really.
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