I'm a Christian, and so are all of my friends. One of my Friends told me yesterday that she wuz probably going to have sex before marrage. I don't know what to do, i mever thought she wud sin like that!
Sinning is a bad thing. All of us, Christians, know this. If she really does l’amour God, she'll think twice about that decision of sex before marriage. Obeying God's Commandments montrer our l’amour for Him. If she is going to deliberately sin, knowing that it's against God's Will, then she's only hurting herself. She needs to go back to church, establish a relationship with God, and pray for the strength to resist the temptation of having sex before marriage. She can try to hide it, deny it, and erase it but God says, "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." Pray for your friend, and remind her what her duty is as a Christian girl, because God loves her. He doesn't want to see her stray down the path of unrighteousness. He only wants what's best for her. Remind her of this.
I don't have a problem with sex before marriage. If you're in a strong relationship and toi want to, it's perfectly reasonable to me. If toi were a slutty hooker, maybe I'd mind. Basically, it's up to the person and their preferences. As long as toi aren't cheating on your spouse ou your GF/BF, it's fine par me.
If she wants to do that, toi have no right to stop her. People need to make mistakes to learn.
I understand that if you're extremely Christian, intercourse before marriage is right up there with putting hotsause in your eye, but, again, it's her decision. If toi want to protect her, toi should talk to her about it, but don't expect her to listen.
It's her choice. Shes a big girl. Let her fight for her self. Who do u think toi are? Her father? Having sex before marriage isn't a bad thing. Its a common thing. Idk anyone any plus that goes par that. It's just to stupid in my opinion. Cause, not all ppl wanna get married. If she wants to, she will. Let her fight for her self, cause honestly, it isn't a big deal. And if she's smart enough, she'll go on birth control. Just saying.
It's her choice, if toi ask me. Sinning is wrong, yeah, but that's not going to stop her from doing it. I'm Christian, and one of my best Friends has had sex before marriage, and just recently broke up with the guy she had sex with. Another one of my best Friends is extremely perverted and constantly makes sex jokes. God may not like it, but that's not going to stop others from doing it. I personally don't quite care.
toi should be worrying about her as a friend and if this is the right decision for her life and how it will affect her emotionally and toi should be there for her in that way. just because she wants to have sex before marriage doesnt mean that shes going to hell and god hates her.
being a christian IS NOT about following the bible down to every exact word. its about being a good peaceful loving person etc.
everyone has their own personal relationship with god, and if this is something she has though over and decided to go through with then toi should not be interfering. its not like shes going to become a hooker and youre trying to stop her... just let her decide on her own and be there for her as a friend, not as some asshole telling her shes going to hell if she has sex.
oh and also, the bible was written over a thousand years ago, if all christians followed the bible down the exact word then life would be pretty fucked up. toi know theres part of the bible that says slavery is supposedly ok? are toi gonna go get a slave now? no. so what part of the bible says toi cant have sex before marriage, that doenst mean that every single christian on the planet is not gonna have sex before marriage, its her fucking life. if she wants to have sex, let her. be concerned as her friend and be reasonable.
Not meaning any disrespect - but a lot of people do have sex before marriage. I suppose it depends on how religious toi are. I'm not really sure how to put my point across without offending anyone but why is it a sin? I'm not religious so I am actually intrigued par this
uhh..... well, if she think she is ready for it, and if it isn't against her beliefs it isn't a sin.... :\ i don't believe in sex before unless, toi are in a very stable relationship and are planning on getting married.... but then Keith happened...
I'm pretty sure most of the people in his world have sex before marriage. To me, I really don't think its that big of a deal. Everyone I know has had sex and not been married. Like seriously I don't know anyone who's waited.
I don't think it's that bad. Well, it would be a sin I wouldn't ignore if she wanted to at an age younger than at least 25. I have an aunt who had sex before marriage, but she was older than 30, and she seems happy. She knew she was going to marry my uncle without a doubt. I will not have sex before marriage and I won't even think about it. I would tell your friend she should wait a little before sex, but it's her choice and toi can only do so much. I hope I could help. :)
As a lapsed Catholic, my Friends and I will be happy to be her friend in hell. In the event that doesn't happen, ultimately it's her decision to have premarital sex. I would hope that she doesn't take this decision lightly and that she and her partner will use birth control.
it's her choice, I understand your concern for your friend, but, it's their life, let them live it, no matter where it may take them, all toi can do is help and influence. sorry to tell ya the truth broski.
I'm christian. so are u. i know its a sin, i know ow in shock u are, but thats u. u should understand its her choice, and in todays world, who cares. its actually not very common for people to wait nowadays. get over it!
If your friend whats to have sex before marriage then let her. Its not your life. I really wouldn't care if my friend wants to do that because its there choice, and they shouldn't care if I want to. (Which I don't) & yes I'm a christian.
I'm a christian but seriously I think that wait till your married thing does not make sense. Can toi seriously control yourself not to have sex if it's someone your truly love? And who the hell gives toi the right to control your friend? chienne please, everyone has a different view on this, a lot of teen Christians don't exactly agree with this commandment, and i'm damned if i didn't agree with it either.
toi cant make her desicions for her but toi can remind her that god wants us to be pure. and pray for her that she doesnt do it and that if she does that she is safe. God gave her free will and she must make theese choices for her self. plus sometimes the plus toi tell someone not to do something the plus they want to do it. just pray n know that god is with her
Stop being a conversionist and expecting people to follow how toi do. This is the real world where people have the choice of doing the things they wish and treating life the way they want to. This isn't always ideal, but its life and toi need accept that, instead of shoving your idea of christianisme down other peoples throats, seriously...