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I need some help making a decision that could change my life... CAN ANYONE HELP????

Ok so I am 15 years old and am going to be starting 11th grade in August but the thing that I don't know now is what school I will go to. So my question is what school I should go to suivant year? I'll give toi some background on the pros and cons of each school. The school I'm at now is great there are lots of things that I like about it that is way I chose it in the first place. Plus I have all my Friends there. For me this an has been really tough. I had to deal with a lot of loss this an and I got rather depressed. I am the kind of person who is really closed off and do not express my feelings and I rarely share how I am feeling. So when I went through everything that I did this an I realized how close I really was to all my Friends because they made the last few months so much easier for me. So then the other school is also a really great school and when I really think about it I think that in the long run moving to that school will give me a better shot for my future. Yet I don't have any Friends there so it may make it difficult for me. So basically when I think about staying I think that I really want to go through all the high school stuff with my Friends like prom and graduation, but at the same time I think the other school will be better for my future. When I talk to my Friends about this they just tell me to stay because they want me to stay at the same school as them which just makes things really confusing for me.

So I know that there is a lot of information but I just want to get an idea of what other people think. I need another perspective that is not bias to one side. So if toi could just leave your thoughts about what toi think I should do if toi need plus information about the situation just let me know and I'll give it to you.
THANK toi VERY MUCH I REALLY NEED THE HELP :)

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ok so for all of toi who answered thank toi toi did help me so it is not 100% but it looks like i will be staying at my school. I just wanted to say thank toi to alll of toi who answered and for those of toi who I did not take your suggestion the conseil was really appricated because everything that toi guys a dit helped me make a decision. So once again thank you. :)
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Mela1994 said:
I honestly think that toi should decide what toi think is best for toi and what toi want to do, if toi want to stay then stay. If toi wanna go then go. It's your choice and your life. Do what toi feel to do! It's the best i can say and it's the best for your self to do.
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padme768 said:
i think toi should stay to the school with your friends.
the other school may be better, but being alone is rough-trust me i know- and it would make toi not pay attention to any classes.
toi will be depressed and wont have any interest at school.
so stick with your Friends to the end, toi will be much happier, and that's what's important =)
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shaza1101 said:
I agree with Padme,

in my school (like all others)everyone splits into their own little groups and just sticks in them. and when 4th yr came and exams were over everyone i was gd Friends with left to go to college ou interships etc, leaving me on my own. and after 4 yrs it was hard to just rejoindre another group no one accepted you, i was on my own for the last 2 yrs and it wasnt exactly fun - i wouldnt recommend it
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Irina92 said:
well if u really l’amour your Friends and stuff u should stay in your old school. but if sometimes u feel oppressed par them u should change and make a new start... u know it depends on how u feel bout it and i think not so much bout how nice the school is...lots need change and new beginning while others r happy with wat they have...that's my opinion even though it's not that clear!
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PrettyCure55 said:
Well.......you're the one who has to choose. Speaking friend-wise, toi should think if toi want to make new ones ou not. toi have to think for your self, we don't know what toi want to do ou if toi think it is the best choice.
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BellaCullen96 said:
I can just imagine what toi are going through. I have moved multiple times, and I'm only 12! I really miss all my Friends from my old schools. I can think of two options toi might like.

The first is going to the new school. toi could stay in touch with your Friends if it isn't that far away, and make a bunch of new friends. If toi don't have a boyfriend, it could also be a good chance to meet new guys, toi know, start off fresh.

The other option is staying at your present school with all of your friends. toi could study hard so toi can get into a good college. From that college toi can work hard to get the future toi would have gotten from the other school. I personally like this idea better.

I hope this helps toi out some!
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The-Stig said:
I think that if toi genuinely think that the other school will be better for toi in the long run then toi should go for it. Hopefully you'll be able to make new Friends there and it's important to stay in contact with your old Friends as well. Your future is very important, so toi shouldn't let other people hold toi back. Your Friends sound great so Im sure they'll understand whatever toi choose. So i think make sure to stay close with them but go ahead and déplacer to the other if it will be better for you. besides, if worse comes to the worst toi can always déplacer back to the school ur at now.
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angiii7 said:
School with your friends! I say it cause it lived that and I picked the other school and now I'm not unhappy but I missed my Friends every single jour ...
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