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LifeAsC said:
I'm actually in the same situation, and it really hurts, I get it. My crush is annoyed par me too, and the biggest mistake toi could make is pushing those bounderies. The conseil "there are other poisson in the sea" irritates me - because how can a person like toi if the both of toi haven't even gotten to know each other? So, here's my whole hearted advice:
Give him space. Let him know that toi are your own person and that he isn't a huge significance involved in your life. Don't bother to let him drag toi down, that'll just cause him to be even plus annoyed, and toi to be even plus obsessed with the idea of the two of toi together. However, whenever he sees you, make eye contact. Short but not too short, keep the contact for about 2-3 secondes and look away with a small smile (that's pretty much a donné though). He'll know that you're interested, but just don't harass him with it. If being "annoying" is a trait of yours, embrace it. It's a flaw that many people have and struggle with, but if your crush actually gets to know you, and sees your good qualities, he may start to actually like you...and par that time he'll accept toi for who toi are. But if he finally gets to know you, and still doesn't like toi for who toi are, he's not worth anymore of your time. (That's and IF though)
General advice: just get to know him, let a bit of time pass to clear the tension between the two of you. However, keep sending signals that you're still interested, for example eye contact. (Also, think before toi act upon your words when toi speak to him.)
I really hope it works out, but if not, just remember that the situation is what toi make of it. déplacer on, improve yourself and live to your potential as a valued human being. Don't let one "crush" hurt you, turn it into a lesson and know that one jour there will be someone willing to l’amour you, flaws and all.
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