What's the difference between loving someone, and being In l’amour with someone?

In my opinion to be in l’amour with someone is also to l’amour someone but blindly, not seeing the other one's flaws.
Loving someone means toi do know everything about them and toi do know flaws person has but toi still l’amour him/her with all your heart.
Also, being in l’amour is usually just in the beginning (of a relationship) while loving someone can last forever.
The other thing is, when you're in l’amour toi have a constant need to touch and Kiss (...) the other person. It also (usually) makes your cœur, coeur beat faster and that someone is everything toi can think of.
To actually l’amour someone means toi don't have such a need of constant touching, you're fine with knowing that he/she loves toi back and that he/she will always be there for toi - with knowing toi HAVE the other one, in some way (not like owing the person, but to have feeling like toi belong to someone, and he/she belongs to you).

Loving some one is like having sex with them , and being in l’amour with someone is when toi really like the person and toi would care for them and treat them good,because toi really l’amour them ,your cœur, coeur is pounding towards them , your in l’amour with that person and toi just want to be with them . That's my opinion

Being in l’amour with someone is when toi l’amour someone and the other loves toi back. It is sort of like infatuation but to a deeper level. Being in l’amour perhaps is being in a romantic relationship.

Loving someone is caring for that person deeply without them loving toi back romantically. toi can l’amour your family, but it does not mean they l’amour toi romantically. toi care a great deal about the other person.

Loving someone is the things toi do. Being in l’amour with someone is the great times and bad times toi share together.

Being in l’amour is based on dependability, compassion, respect and compromise. If toi don't share those important qualities with each other then its just infatuation and not LOVE

When my boyfriend first a dit he loved another girl, but he was "in love" with me, I didn't understand. But then I thought about it. Being in l’amour with someone means your connected to them in a way no one else is. toi feel for them in a way only they understand. toi are completely embedded in this person. Something about them makes toi tick, makes toi see things differently.You see them in a different light that only they can see too. While Loving someone is the feeling of protection and deep caring for that person. Sometimes Humans will get jealous because they don't understand the difference. But it's okay to feel jealous.

Just loving someone means that the feeling is sort of mutal.Like,the way toi l’amour your parents ou teachers.But Being IN l’amour with someone is when toi actual do things to montrer that person that toi care,certain things& actions.Sorry,if thats confusing:)

Loving someone means.. hm... Have feelings for someone, I guess, and To be in l’amour is to have those feelings and get it from somebody toi l’amour back...

To l’amour someone is like the l’amour toi have for Friends and family, etc. To be 'in love' with someone is plus for a guy ou girl toi are in a relationship with, and someone toi are seriously involved with.
That's why some couples do fall 'out of love' with each other, but still have a 'love' for each other, if that makes any sense.

i think toi use the term "loving someone" when you're talking about family ou close Friends and being IN l’amour with someone is plus serious like relationships and marriage.

no idea..never dated before!!!

This question is often difficult to answer, and there is a very fine line between the two.

Loving someone usually refers to platonic l’amour [non-romantic], such as with parents, other relatives, friends, etc. When toi l’amour someone, toi care about them deeply and would do anything for them, but toi have no romantic feelings.

When you're IN l’amour with someone, it almost always refers to romantic l’amour [girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance, spouse]. Like I said, it includes romantic feelings, where toi want to be with the person forever and feel like toi can't live without them.

It's hard to define because toi can never really DEFINE what l’amour is, just thats the gist of it. Love=platonic, IN love=romantic.

Hope I could help ;)

when toi l’amour someone toi have very strong feeling toward them and toi would do anything for them and would never want to hurt them, but when toi are in l’amour with someone toi want to spend every heure of every jour with that person and toi can truly feel that that is the one and only person toi ever wanted. well basically toi will just know when toi meet this person, your body will tell toi this.

In my opinion, and this is the way that i see it, is that in true l’amour there is no dishonsty, toi l’amour only for the sake of loving and and toi give plus than toi take. that is how i would define true love. it's when toi are prepared to do anything for that other prson without expecting anything in return. that is unconditional love, which is true l’amour in my opinion.

Loving someone is like your family. being in l’amour with someone means a guy ou girl. i got this from my mom.

when toi l’amour someone that means toi care for them their feelings , their well being , toi just really would be upset if something would happen to them good ou bad , Being In l’amour means all the above And a WANTING to spend every minute every seconde with that person who is always on your mind no matter what toi do THEIR there on your mind , a need for this person . I am in l’amour with this wonderful man and we met at work , it all started with a stare , the LOOK of l’amour he says , after a week of wanting the need to stare at his eyes and him staring at mine we exchanged numbers we talked every jour we both wanting to be at work so we could stare at each other no matter who was looking that stare never left people walking par at work looking at us staring would be like damn get a room . we talked plus and plus after communicating well with each other we finally had a first rendez-vous amoureux, date after a mois we wanted to take things slow , at the end of the rendez-vous amoureux, date we kissed a little Kiss come to find out he wanted to passionately Kiss me and i wanted the same , our seconde rendez-vous amoureux, date we went to a restaurant and when he dropped me off OH YEAH that Kiss from being a little Kiss went to a Kiss i will absolutely NEVER forget a Kiss so wonderful it actually got us both light headed he says a passionate Kiss that we couldnt stop s’embrasser we kept on and on and then when we got that feeling of OH OH we better stop s’embrasser ou else ! we stopped and its been 6 months and we still stare and Kiss passionately nonestop our first sexual encounter was like we both were in heaven both feeling of wanting plus and plus each jour he says we crave each other and constantely on each others mind he left that job and found another but we both are now craving each other plus now that he is not there we text and call telling each other our TRUE feelings of what we are going throughout the jour YES WE ARE BOTH IN l’amour TRULY MADLY DEEPLY

the difference is that loving someone is what people say they feel about someone but being in l’amour With someone is when toi always want to be around that person that person makes toi happy and toi feel a spark and that person is the one toi want to be with for the rest of your life, your soulmate. :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!

lovin someone is like ur mom
in lovin is when toi want to rendez-vous amoureux, date then ou marry them thats they i see it

I think loving someone can't only mean to like a guy it could also mean ur family.& being in l’amour with some one is having a strong feeling for some one like really think is ur true l’amour ou something like that (LOL)

how think of it as i l’amour all my Friends yet being in l’amour is with your boy-friend if that makes sence. cause toi can l’amour your family but toi arnt in l’amour with them

well if hes mean 2 u then he is a stupid jerk

I believe that loving someone is being interested in things they do, although they dont interest toi and wanting to be with them etc.. but i believe that being in l’amour with someone, is when they touch toi get electric shivers and your cœur, coeur races and when yous Kiss theres no one else in the world just yous, and your knees go week and your feels like its gonna jump out your mouth toi cant get over how magical it is to be with this person, thats l’amour to me anyway, its like fireworks on a stary night looking into their eyes. well thats how i feel when im with my boyfriend:)(L)

being in l’amour with someone is like 'dreaming to go to the Eiffel tower every jour and night'.and loving someone is like being on Eiffel tower actually!

its different because when u are in l’amour with someone u dont tell anyone and lovin some one people will know

The difference between loving someone and
being in l’amour with someone is that when toi love
someone it means toi have caring feelings for
them. When you're in l’amour with someone, it means
toi still have caring feelings, but toi also have
feelings as if you're warm inside and toi feel
fluttery.

Well there is two different kind of loves.
One is...
-Romantic Love: It is emotional, sexual, and spiritual recognition. It is irrational and like an emotional storm.
Another is...
-Loving someone: It is tender, quiet. It is like a light that allows people to see things that are not seen par others.
Hope that helped! :)

Being in l’amour with someone usually requires both participants to feel that way about each other. Hence, "being in". Loving someone can be one-sided ou two.

Loving someone is passion. Being in l’amour with someone is loving u 4 who u r. l’amour also is the respect 4 one another, and that's something we always 4get. We always mistake l’amour 4 passion and that's sad cuz it always ends up with a bleeding heart. Being in l’amour with someone is somebody who will l’amour and respect u! Or...maybe it's the other way around, not sure.

In my opinion toi say toi "love someone" toi thinks about one of your friens/family, but if toi say"I'm in l’amour with..." it's plus than a simple fiendship.

when toi l’amour someone you're together and being in l’amour with someone means that toi l’amour something about that person

Loving sum one is just wen u like him/her but in l’amour is wen u both deeply l’amour echother

loving someone means that u l’amour someone abt whom u knw everything it means u fell in luv with him after knowing him better and being in luv with someone means u l’amour someone abt whom u knw nothing it means u fell in l’amour with him without knwing anthing abt him

Loving someone is u care and will always be there for there for them. When u r in l’amour with someone u try to be with them and try to tell them.

u can say that u l’amour anybody but when u say your in l’amour with somebody that means that u l’amour that person for who he is. i think . i dont know dont ask me

bein in l’amour means u cant live another jour without them u wuld tak ur last breathe to spend time with the person ur in luv with loving somone iz wen u tak ur tim n pleas ur amoureux body makin them feel lik they wuld go all out ther ways 2 feel that pleasure again

I'm not all an expert but I'll try and explain best I can. I think loving someone is like loving your parents and friends, toi care about them and are protective of them. But being inlove is knowing that, that special person means the world too you. toi care about thme in a special way seeing them in a different light. Loving them completely to the fault. I mean toi l’amour your parents and yeah they get on your nerves so some people think toi don't care that much and it's true some people care less but being truely inlove with someone is knowing that even though toi fight ou argue that afterwards he ou she will still be there for toi and toi wouldn't care less about him and her over some stupid arguement.

Hope that helped

toi have asked a very hard question to answer. However thinking about it from my own point of view. I have someone I l’amour but it began as a crush which got out of hand I know it will not last for ever and for lots of reasons can go no further than it has already so I am not in l’amour but I do l’amour him. I know this because I can go days without seeing ou hearing from him and although its hard I don't miss him where as if I was in l’amour I would want and need to see him every day.

The difference between l’amour and being in love.

toi can l’amour anything, such as a person ou maybe a pet. toi care for it, it has a meaning to you. It's just a tender affection for somebody, a feeling of kindness ou strong liking.

But when toi are truly in l’amour every single part of your body thrives for that one person. Every cœur, coeur beat, every movement, thought, feeling, is revolved around one person that toi are so passionate for that toi look past the present and into the future. You're so blinded with l’amour that toi cant see a single flaw, this person becomes a superhero in your eyes. When you're in l’amour toi can't be without that person without desiring their warmth and touch. And toi would truly do anything for them, because toi are so in l’amour with this person they have plus meaning to toi then toi do to yourself. It's so intense and passionate toi almost seem in a different world with them as if nothing else has ou ever will have any meaning to you. Its finding the balance between desire and needs. toi cant focus without beginning to think of  them. It's when your soul is truly yearning this other, as if they were part of you. You're so infatuated with this person, that your life revolves around them. Its the needing for their soul to be intertwined with yours. You're completely head over heels, and a complete idiot

'LOVE' CAN BE BROAD-INCLUDING MANY.

toi can l’amour YOURSELF (& toi are hopefully not IN-LOVE with yourself), toi can l’amour someone as a human-being, as a person, ou as the particular person they are: like your bestfriend, ou anyone, even an enemy ou aléatoire person, your dog, a cat, ou a "thing":{i.e. I l’amour my car!}. There is different depths AND "types" of love. toi can l’amour a place, l’amour reading, l’amour a god ou God, and toi can even have l’amour in a marriage, etc. without being "inlove" (love your mom ou dad ou fam member but toi are not "inlove" with them, ou I hope) :0

THERE IS ONLY ONE 'IN-LOVE'.
It is NOT broad & it is not just whenever we say ou feel like it, either.

IN-love is MUTUAL romantic "real"-love (NOT infatuation ou chiot l’amour ou just THINKING toi are in-love, EITHER!). toi definately l’amour the someone toi are "in-love" with & vice-versa, but toi can l’amour someone and NOT be in-love ou if they do not "romantically" l’amour toi back & return that love, then it isn't really "In-Love" it is Infatuation ou a Crush. In-Love is the romantic sense must take two people in a mutual agreement of that. It envelopes your being in an indescribable way, that I think is actually confused a lot & really only happens with a soulmate ou someone VERY close to that as a true love/life mate.

loving some one is caring about them, like with family and friends. being l’amour with someone is not being able to get them out of your head, wanting to do anything to make them happy, and knowing they have flaws but that that is what makes them so amazing. oh yea and toi probally won't be able to say anything bad about them, ou find anything wrong with them.

To l’amour someone is closer to nothing than something. Come to think of it as i do. One can l’amour anything realy ( l’amour your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister, your cat, your dog, some kind of flower, toi favourite nourriture ect. ) but to be in l’amour with someone ( to do anything for the person even to die for that person ) my personal opinion

In my openian l’amour is blind. so when someone being with l’amour that person only seen his amoureux filling and always trying to give happiness and much plus l’amour to his lover.when u being with l’amour u not understand what is tje value of your partner and toi cœur, coeur him many times.
toi dont understand what is lonelyness.
what fill when u alone.what fill about waiting for some one.
And other hand when the person loving someone.
when toi loving someone toi always try to share your filling with the person toi love.and when this person comes to toi for something your mouth are sealed and toi become silence.
and toi always reply with short.ex. yes/no.
and always try too told him your felling anf your l’amour but the self confidence geting low evety time.
toi always know what is the value of your loving person in your life.
and what is loneliness.
and what is feel in your heart.
the true l’amour is in loving someone par oneside.and told him.
the loving someone is most dangerous and most hearting.
l’amour and Loving its look like same but
its most different part of l’amour life.
in l’amour toi will get confromice.
but in loving toi get only depressions.
so amoureux dont get your cœur, coeur and alone.
and loving person dont Give Up toi become successful.
Iam Also Loving Someone.

There is a definite difference between loving someone and being "in love" with someone. I l’amour my sister, I l’amour my mom, I loved my dad (when he was alive) and I l’amour Friends and I l’amour animaux and my pets. To be in l’amour with someone is a feeling that runs deeper than that of a normal caring about a person. I l’amour my sister deeply, for example, but I'm not "in love" with her. I l’amour my ex-husband (I was young when I got married for reasons too much to write here) and as sad as it sounds, I was never in l’amour with him. I am in l’amour with my fiancé, however.
I never pictured the future with my ex-husband and I was married to him for 9 years! There are a lot of people in relationships that are not in l’amour with the other. They care about them and they l’amour them and value them highly, but they aren't in l’amour with them. That's why these relationships will not last. They get used to another person and stick around even though they know there is plus left to be desired. This isn't the fault of anyone, it's an unexplainable feeling, but that's why divorce is so rampant and broken families abound. I never pictured having children with my ex, but I did l’amour and care about him a lot.
I picture my whole life with my fiancé. I want children with him and to be with him wherever that may be. I see my whole life in his eyes and I feel complete with him. I don't feel like I should be anywhere else except with him and I don't feel anxious like I should be doing something else in my life. It's a feeling that as long as I am with him, anything is fine.
My ex and I had (for me at least and I'm pretty sure for him as well) a platonic relationship and we never should have been married. My fiancé and I have beyond what is a caring ou platonic l’amour for each other and distance and many trials have proven that this feeling does not go away. We desire each other and to be with each other and are on a different level than anyone we've ever known in our lives. It's not all that common to find someone we are totally in l’amour with and most will marry and have children with someone they l’amour deeply, although not in love.
It's hard to explain, but it's just a feeling that no matter where life takes you, no matter what your career, no matter what happens, as long as the other person is suivant to you, toi feel complete and suffer a type of separation anxiety if they were to be away from you.

Being in l’amour is an obsession, a need for them to fill our desires.

Loving someone is passion, a want to make all their dreams reality

"Being" in l’amour comes from your cœur, coeur - unconditioned, from pure being and joy .. without thinking and interpreting.

Loving some "one" comes from your mind, conditioned about something what that person is, what character ou quality it has, toi l’amour the person, not the being. So when the person change, toi may complain and stop loving that person.

So please be always love. It's your true being <3

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Well for me, loving someone is when toi express ou montrer your affection to someone toi l’amour without any response in return. l’amour is unconditional. So if toi l’amour someone, toi don't care if they don't l’amour toi back. toi just l’amour them for who they are.

Being in l’amour with someone, oh, haha, i guess this is where toi get to be crushing on someone toi really, really like. It's different from loving someone because you're in l’amour with that person yet toi wanted the person to l’amour toi back. It's like toi want to feel his passion for toi too.

well i live with someone for 14 years, wich i am still in love! this week he told me that that he l’amour me, but not in l’amour with me any more... I have to say that we were abset, so we were having a meeting....
I fellt like if is the end of the word, i cry cry forever, i just totaly Lost the control, that really really hurt me dip, very dip. I think is the worst think someone ever a dit to me, i canot tell you, how much i being soffering after that, i just canot get over it! still on my head, I am not in l’amour with toi any more..... than he also said, I l’amour toi and care for toi couse we live together for so long.... I felt such a big pain in my hart, like i could not breath....
that jour we agree to separate, it was horrible.
I still have feelings for this man, i still fancy him, after all this years, he works a way, and everytime he comes home, i still fancy him like mad.
But for a long time that thinkgs not being the same, like when he is back from work he his allways tierd and seconde day, he still not interested in have sexo, this being like this for a long time.
I thougt that is becase he now allways travel a lot, but seconde day, and third.... for god sake!!
I abset him, because i talk about things that we could do, wich is stupid he fell this way....
he is a quite guy.... works hard have lots of male friends, he is good looking, well a big balley, but charming!!
so any way, for me the way i see it, l’amour is like l’amour your sister, friends, mother, father, etc
but in l’amour is from a woman and man, that fancy each other, want to Kiss and hug that person, feel that he have to say, I l’amour toi after make love, is that feeling that toi can see and look at other people but in the end of the day, toi would not fancy them ou betray.
For me it feell like is the end of the world. I Lost the balance of live.... i am so said, and lost.
5 days after this, he told me that don't know what l’amour is any more.... I had to find out if i can live like this.
I know dip down the write think is just live this man that hurt my hart so dip. I wish one day, he learns how much it hurt on me...
I had found out one think that being living like this make me reallize that i miss have someone that really fancy me, Kiss and miss me and all that thinks that mean so much, i did not have that from him for a long time. So Lost I am.

"In love" means romantic interest. And when we l’amour someone, it could be anyone. Like, I l’amour my friend very much. But that doesnt mean I am in l’amour with her. But I l’amour her soooo very much!

How I started to l’amour a girl was i meet her as she signed me up for gym, she leand in towards me and smiled, From what ive read thats flirting. For the past 2 weeks we would make eye contact and sometimes gaze at each other for plus than 5seconds and she would come in to where i was working out and fix up the equipment wink wink. Sorry for my bad english and grammar. Then i stopped going to gym after about 6months i came back, "there was a reason i didnt go family related not important" she was still trying to flirt with me. But i didnt catch her as often doing it and yesterday the first words i actually a dit to her in that amount of time was bye on my way out. That night i had a dream about her, me and my dad and sister going go gym working out and my dad setup this little game as i climb the stairs i would be donné piece par piece of paper with letters and number, it turned out to be her name where we was going to rendez-vous amoureux, date and her number. Very odd then i wokeup, i had this wierd feeling in my stomach and my cœur, coeur felt full I just started to fall inlove with her par only saying bye that night. Idk how to explain it i just know im falling inlove because when i just loved her i would do anything for her, but now its like my cœur, coeur wants to speak for it self and no one is plus important then she will ever be to me. Thats the difference in loving someone and inlove with someone now i just wake up thinking of her without even actually knowing her other then her name. Soon i will lose control and my cœur, coeur will just talking to her it self, for now i think im best to just let it play out. For those who know of soulmate i knew she was mine from the first jour i knew her just because i felt like i had seen her before even though i really hadnt and a lot may be like thats no proof, well it happens differently for everybody and thats how it happened for me im just too afraid to ask her and idk why i dont fear rejection i just want to talk to her 1v1 in private. Soon i wont be able to control my self anymore and my cœur, coeur will take over prehaps thats a good thing other then i dont think when i talk i just say how i feel. Well theres plus to the story and its a lot plus romantic then just this but id rather keep it to my self. <3

When toi l’amour someone, it is when toi have known them for a long enough time that toi can trust them and know that they will be there for you. For example, toi l’amour your mom, toi l’amour your pets, toi l’amour your bffs. These are all things that toi have close relationships with, and can trust. Another form of loving can be with an accessory such as a collier ou a blouse, but that is simple and not very powerful.
Being in l’amour is a whole different story. Being in l’amour with someone means that toi are attracted to this person, it means that while toi are doing homework, sleeping ou even showering, toi cant stop thinking of this person. Being in l’amour means that toi feel those papillons when toi are around him/her, it means that toi are longing for them all the time. Being in l’amour isn't something toi can control because it is a powerful force that brings the two of toi together. When you're in l’amour toi can feel them in the wind on a cool night, toi can see them when toi close your eyes, and toi think of them when toi listen to your favori song. If you're in love, you'll go to the moon and back and overcome any obstacles that come your way to be with them. You'll wait longer than forever if it means that toi can be with them. And when toi touch, you'll feel as if toi can fly.
To anyone lire this, if toi are lucky enough to experience any of these feelings toi are very lucky. Don't let the person who these feeling are towards go. Cherish them, help them, pick the up when they're upset, montrer them that toi will go the moon and back to be with them, and tell them that you'll wait longer than forever for them and most of all enjoy this feeling of being IN LOVE! If toi let it go it will be something toi regret for a long time.

When toi ou I ou whoever say *I l’amour you* they l’amour toi for toi and everything about toi and that the way toi make them feel like nobody else. Now when your in l’amour its a closed cercle btwn toi and the another person. toi both make each other feel loved and l’amour each. Both are on the same level of loving each other . So to be in l’amour is to be in a closed cercle with someone who feels same way bout toi to l’amour someone else is to l’amour them for them and how they make toi feel toward them