Is there a chance my ex and I will reconcile our relationship?

My ex girlfriend and I have been best Friends since we were small children (we're both ladies and both now 24) and decided to make our bond official after mutual feelings were brought to light 3 ou 4 years ago. Our relationship, like any, had its ups and downs and ultimately, back in April, we got into it over something stupid and broke up. In the beginning, she vehemently declared she was "over" me in that way and would likely NEVER want to get back together with me, but still wanted to go on being my best friend as always; her entire demeanor changed from the sweet girl I knew and loved to someone cold and cruel. I, on the other hand, have suffered immensely and have foolishly kept the faith we might get back together later on down the road.

Currently, 2 months later, she and I are on pretty friendly terms having talked all the way through the break up, and she still spends the night with me but as platonic as possible until the last couple of times she's stayed. These times, she's made an extra effort to touch me/be close to me, not sexually per se, but in a manner that to me might suggest a need coming from her to have some sort of physical connection there. She's much plus consoling to me in récent weeks as well, going plus out of her way to talk to me about my daily problems and help me deal with them and share hers just like we used to with one another instead of being the reserved person she'd became with me. And I feel like things MIGHT be looking up and our chances of getting back together at some point at least might be strengthening but I'd really appreciate a seconde opinion.

What do toi think?
 ladyshela posted il y a plus d’un an
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Missconstrictor said:
Talk to her about getting back together. Don't say toi want to get back together right away, but just talk about it. See if you're on the same page. If toi are, start slow, maybe a few dates ou something, just start working towards rekindling your relationship. If you're not on the same page, then that's ok. If she doesn't want to get back together then there's nothing toi can really do about that. toi seem like toi have a pretty good friendship going on, and if she isn't wanting to get back together, then that's no reason for your friendship to end.
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legend_of_roxas said:
From what it seems she's really trying to make the relationship work out. Every relationship has its fallouts, but if toi can look past them then toi know the relationship is strong.
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