Hi guys…I will start!!!
So I came back after a 2 year hiatus…and I was honestly amazed at how much fandom ruled. I honestly didn’t understand this whole Queen/King idea and why it mattered so much. But I don’t know….I found it hard to fit back in at first. Someone told me that someone now took over all the things I loved and I was ok should that matter? That just meant I had someone to fangirl with.
But then I started talking to people….and I noticed that someone had something they ‘owned’ I guess….and I don’t know I guess I was confused.
Then I did some picks….and I picked a couple of wrong things, and then some of the girls got really upset because I picked them (they still don’t know it was me). And I was like shit….I made a mistake.
But then talking to Rana ages ago….I realized…I shouldn’t be made to feel guilty about choosing a certain option…yet I was.
I also really don’t like the LPF cast picks….I am sorry to everyone who does…but I just, I hated hearing that someone else should have gotten a character that I won…or practically being told I didn’t make a good enough character by not being chosen even though I felt like I related to them. I also don’t like people being dubbed ‘the character of this spot’ I feel like that isn’t fair to someone else who also adores that character or is also very similar to that character.
I just think that this spot needs to think less about fandoms and more about us as friends and people and look at our personality more <3 we should be defined by our qualities and not our characters and couples.
Anyway this is my confession/thoughts and yeah.
I really hope this gets used <3
So I came back after a 2 year hiatus…and I was honestly amazed at how much fandom ruled. I honestly didn’t understand this whole Queen/King idea and why it mattered so much. But I don’t know….I found it hard to fit back in at first. Someone told me that someone now took over all the things I loved and I was ok should that matter? That just meant I had someone to fangirl with.
But then I started talking to people….and I noticed that someone had something they ‘owned’ I guess….and I don’t know I guess I was confused.
Then I did some picks….and I picked a couple of wrong things, and then some of the girls got really upset because I picked them (they still don’t know it was me). And I was like shit….I made a mistake.
But then talking to Rana ages ago….I realized…I shouldn’t be made to feel guilty about choosing a certain option…yet I was.
I also really don’t like the LPF cast picks….I am sorry to everyone who does…but I just, I hated hearing that someone else should have gotten a character that I won…or practically being told I didn’t make a good enough character by not being chosen even though I felt like I related to them. I also don’t like people being dubbed ‘the character of this spot’ I feel like that isn’t fair to someone else who also adores that character or is also very similar to that character.
I just think that this spot needs to think less about fandoms and more about us as friends and people and look at our personality more <3 we should be defined by our qualities and not our characters and couples.
Anyway this is my confession/thoughts and yeah.
I really hope this gets used <3