hey, i used to be a christian girl, but last year, i turned goth, everyone keeps saying they miss the old me, so i dont no wat 2 do! i need help... plez!!!!!

It's not about religion-I'm christian and goth..I conseil toi to be a goth,cuz that is how toi feel like and nobody can tell toi who to be...

Just be yourself-whatever toi feel it is!

Just be yourself,be how toi are be free if toi want to dress black,pruple ou rose your Friends dosent have to arque ou say anything to toi because that what toi want to do.... & Bessides if toi turned Goth that dosent mean toi have to change inside your still the same only the outside what's difference.

Just do whatever toi feel is You. If it's not toi then what is it? Do toi miss the old you, ou are toi happy with being goth, because it is just toi being yourself, ou are toi having seconde thoughts because it's not and it's just a phase toi are going through. questions toi need to think about, answering them should help your problem.

I hope, just trying to help.

Also being goth should have absolutely no effect on rather ou not toi are a christian, toi can be goth and christian. Pleanty of goths are christians. They can be whatever they want to be, being goth is a personal life style and there are no rules to it.

I know how toi feel. But never forget this: No matter what your outer shell apearence is, toi inner soul is what tells others who toi really are. the steriotypes block everything, but they're too afraid to look into your eyes to look through the windows of your soul. The old toi was probably your cocoon, and your new self is just the beginning of your metamorphosis of searching yourself and trying to become a woman of what she sets her own rules, instead of listening to others. They don't understand, as they secretly want to be like you, but underneath they're souls are writhing in pain, wishing to be what they want to be, but their washed away from fear of what others may think. Your change of not listening to others and their opinions, shows that your a strong willed, confident person who is Rebelle and strong. We maybe all individuals, but I can see outer shells that long to be like the others, but not all can be alike ou the same. If we were all like one another, the world be an asylum of happy smiling zombies that suffer from fear of termination and being outcasted. Never be afraid of who toi are, man!! Live up to your goals!

just tell them tht u like the new u, if u do, and if their true Friends they'll say par ur side no matter what. If they don't then find new ones who will stick par u changes ou no changes. Let me know if it helps!

u can be goth and still be Christian MDR and if U like the way u look and act then stay that way ur not here to impression others ou make others happy ur here for u