I admit it wasn't the smartest choice to out her in front of the school but she had really hurt him and this was the only way to get even with her..How was he to know someone would be taping it.

They both did wrong, but Finn should HAVE known better!!! He really should have actually spoken to her about in private!!

I really love Santana but she deserved it. She was getting on my nerves.

I used to love Santana, but lately she was getting kinda annoying. Making fun of Finn and Kurt and Rachel...it was sorta like it all came back to bite her in the butt. It was just going to happen sometime..so why not in the beginning of season 3??

I have no idea. As of Santana, I was really pissed off when she made Rory's nose bleed. But at the same time, if that conversation didn't start about Santana being a lesbian, then it wouldn't have spread on the presidential campaign on television.

Santana had it coming for a while. I get how hard it was but it didn't give her a right to be mean to everyone, especially how she treated Rory and everything she said to Finn. The whole thing kind of built up like Karma. But I did feel bad for her at the end. But it was good of Finn to stand up for himself like that and he didn't intend for it to be publicly broadcasted. He just let his anger take over him.

Santana started it with the mean comments, and she deserved something back. I am not upset at Finn for saying what he did, and it's not like anyone listened in to them before (the Glee kids always have conversations in the hallways and nobody even glances toward them unless they're armed with slushies). I think it was a spur of the moment comment that just happened to be overheard.

So even though I don't want to choose sides, in Finn vs. Santana, I choose Finn.

But I still don't think Santana deserves to be publically outed on that ad.

they were both in the wrong santana did need something to put her in her place but it shouldent have been that although im sure finn dident mean for it to happen like that he still shouldent have done it not there at least

^agreed, they're both in the right and both in the wrong and tbh I don't feel it nessesarry to pick sides.

I love Santana but she asked for it. Finn should not have stooped down to her level but she kept pushing him to his limit.
&& i am still a fan of Santana but i was angry at how she treated Rory.

I was so mad at finn as you know Santana can not help it she was born that way and in born this way she finds out that Dave is gay but speaks o him in private I do want to attend anyone but I now officially HATE Finn now I mean really doing what he did could cause a suicidal death and he should have known and in my opinion Finn so deserved that slap not Cory but Finn did that's the honest truth and Finn should have totally known that revenge is not the key and if revenge it should be not something that can ruin someone's life exactl of what he did yes Santana did say he was fat but that can be taken back you can say the truth but when you say something like what Finn did you can not take it back it's stuck there forever and it can cause death especially with someone as emotional as Santa a and Finn should have known better

^So you'd rather him do nothing but let her bully him into a corner? No I think not, even if he did nothing about it Finn would still recieved hate from the fans (being called useless, spineless weakling). He was tired of her abuse and bullshit as would anyone and he did the only thing he could think of to make her stop. She's hurt him so much and this is the only time he's hurt her and it wasn't even intentionally. Do I condone his actions? No but she had it coming proving she can dish it out but she sure as hell can't take it. Santana is a bully and you're no better if you support the things she said and did to Finn and Rory or anyone for that matter.

ForesakenMoon19 everything you said is what i think!!

Yes, it was wrong, but he wasn't TRYING to hurt her. He was thinking, "I can't take it anymore! She needs to stop!"

Finn... Santana is a straight up bitch.

Santana was being a jerk but Finn shouldn't have YELLED it out to all that would listen

I think they both did wrong but I'm team Finn because Santana started it.

If Santana wasnt a Bully and leave Finn alone.. NONE OF THIS WILL HAPPEN!!

agree with gizem4

She's been a bitch with him...

Santana was a bitch, but Finn indirectly outing her was completely out of order. I know what that feels like, so i'm feeling really sad for Santana.

^What was he supposed to do she was bullying him into a corner and nothing he did could make her stop. Plus he didn't intentionally out her or really at all but I agree he acted out of line. Still Santana was the first to cross that line, she learned quickly and harshly that bullying gets you nowhere!

Just imagine for one second ForsakenMoon, and even all the others, that you deepest secret was being yelled out to the whole school. He just yelled it and now everyone knows that you're [just put your secret here]

I am gay, I am not out yet and I am not ready to be out. Exactly as Santana was at that moment. Sure, she started it with calling him names and telling him he looked fat. Sure, she bullied Rory and I didn't like the way she did it. But being outed to the whole school by someone, who is just doing it to hurt you is the worst pain anyone can do.

It was not in his hands to out her, she needed to come to terms with it, accept herself, cause from what we saw, she isn't even comfortable with herself, and come out to the people she thought should know.

Finn was simply a jerk here, and I will defend Santana's sake in this whole thing with Finn VS. Santana.

@Charmed_Luver okay you're so smart then you tell me how exactly he could've got her to stop and don't you dare pull out that ridiculous card "he could've pulled her aside to speak privately" after she just ripped him and his friend apart like a savage dog!! He was angry in that moment and you're forgetting he's 17 stop putting him on a friggan pedestal like he's on a murder trial! This is a kid that has been bullied terribly by this ignorant, horrible little brat for 3 years all because she can't deal with herself, why the hell is this Finn or Rory's problem or anyone's for that matter?!?! Please enlighten me since you're so keen on this matter! Nothing he did worked and if he'd let it go she would've gone right back to doing it over and over! If it wasn't Finn it would've been some other victim of hers that would've said the same thing and speaking as a victim of bullying myself I would've said the exact same things as Finn. You just hate that it was Finn of all people who called her out on her bullshit! LISTEN HUNNY I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE, BULLYING IS INEXCUSABLE!!! AS I stated in my article about bullying on glee I don't give a shit if you're a man, woman, gay, straight, black, white, religious, a teen or an adult BULLYING IS WRONG AND NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO IT!!!!! Santana had it coming from the beginning as tragically as it happened she brought this whole mess on herself! If she had left Finn and Rory alone this conversation in the hallway would've never took place! So go ahead and defend your coward of a character keep telling yourself she was right, when absolutely 100% she was dead wrong in her actions!

You guys should watch link.

@Teamdamon33 thank you for posting that video I think everyone should see it and find out what the definition of a bully is! Finn might've been out of line as I said but after watching that video I was reminded once again how awful Santana has been to him as well as several other people! Oh and that last part in the video where Santana outs Kurt before he was ready was a perfect ending! Finn snapped, he finally couldn't take it anymore and he let her have it so kudos to Finn for not being a jellyfish and a coward!

Even though I feel bad for santana for being outed, I dont agree when people say that you cant compare being called fat and being outed.
1-Lesbians and gays have a free pass to be mean to other people and treat them like crap? It seems like everyone justifies santana´s bullying. She treated him like crap all episode (and the other seasons too) and even when mercedes and brit asked her to apologize she didnt.
2-Being called fat is as bad as being out. You cant compare what hurts most because people ARE different. I was called fat in middle school and later I suffered from anorexia, so yeah, it hurt me, a lot. So being bullied about how someone looks can hurt as much as being outed.

PD: I just watched the video from the link above. So good.

ahhh.. @charmed_luver Correction, Finn DIDNT YELL IT IN THE HALLWAY FOR EVERYONE TO HEAR... He just SAID IT TO HER.. It wasnt his intention.. well yeah, you cant blame a person who just reached his limits right? And if i were Santana and im a closeted lesbian, i would have been nice to everyone well if not nice at least I wont mind someone else's business right? you know Karma.. what goes around comes around, and if youthrow a bread at someone, you will definitely get hit back by a super hard rock which is more painful.. so yeah i guess thats the lesson.. Before you say bad, mea, hurtful things to someone, make sure to look yourself in the mirror first..

I guess you're entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to have one of my own. But if you think that outing someone just because you were bullied by them is good, you're not that much of a decent human being.

she is a bitch and a bully and it was good of the show to actually acknowledge it. but I think it was very wrong that they made her a victim in the next moment because it was as though they said that being closeted gives you a free pass to hurt whom you want. I think this season is turning Santana and Brittany into huge hypocrites.

but no one deserves to be outed. so in this regard I do feel sorry for her. though I do not necessarily blame Finn for it since he was not the one who did the actual damage

santana deserved it after 3 years of bullying other people and being a bitch/

@ForsakenMoon19 couldn't have said it better myself :) at least some people have common sense about bullying.

I completely agree with Charmed_Luver. I'm bi (leaning more towards girls though) and I'm not out yet. The worst thing that someone could do to me would be to out me. It has nearly happened before and I couldn't get to sleep for days. I know some people are on Finn's side, and I respect that, but DON'T hate on Santana so much! PLEASE!

I'm not out either and my parents wouldn't except it and my granparents would be worse. Outside of fanpop only 3 people know, and until I find someone I'm going to remain in the closet. My life will be over if my family disowned me.

I understand Finn being pushed to far but she didn't pull much more than just a few mean words that most people can shake off and forget the next day. If she was a nobody at school people may not have overheard everything but they are two of the most popular kids at school and the attacks weren't under their breaths but clearly able to be over heard. He could of just followed her and said it under his breath it still would have gotten his point across.

Now I kinda forgave Finn after the next episode but what he did was clearly worse than surface deep attacks, I know those hurt too I have been called names but usally I was able to shake them off and I only had 4 frinends in high school and about 10 bullies.

^No what she did to him way way worse!!! Abusing someone mentally and emotionally for 3yrs was bound to carry some consequences! She wasn't even upset after the hallway incident, go back and watch that episode again and see who the real jerk was/is!! Santana brought it on herself and bullying is bullying, there is no excuses for it and there is no halfway NO ONE GETS A FREE PASS AT BEING AN A**HOLE NOT EVEN SANTANA!!!!! Bullying is wrong period!!!

Then I guess your lucky you have such a thick skin, most kids can't even deal with one bully let alone 10, and most kids would probably commit suicide if they were pushed around that much by that many people :p

They both did things wrong but I am really against all the hate for Santana and Finn! I believe Cory Monteith was bullied on twitter because of how Finn outed Santana. What is going on in the world?!?! I know this sounds really cheesy but hate is a strong word. Just because of a couple of things that Finn did wrong, people are bullying the actor. FINN ISN'T REAL. And this is coming from the BIGGEST Naya Rivera fan in the world. I'm sorry, you caught me on a bad day.

^Yah I know it's sad, Cory is getting bullied constantly on twitter by insane glee fans because of things they don't agree with, which is completely not fair:((( it's makes me so sad when I see jerks go on his Twitter and call him awful names like douche and a**hole! Luckily Cory's easygoing nature and wonderful sense of humour have helped him push back the hate. And he loves Finn more than any Finn-fan like myself, Cory takes extreme care of him and would never play a character he didn't like. Finn and Cory are both awesome!

I did have to go through some theorpy and I often hurt myself...my closest friend who was the subject of some of the same people(we were probably as close as Santana and Brittany) went to my parents about it , so I would get the help I needed. Most of it was done behind my back. My senior year was the worse mainly because my dad was on life support from an accident so I went home a lot more because I couldn't deal with it.

There's no excuse what either did but the fact that Cory is getting harrassed about it is really stupid. Makes me wonder if people know the difference between characters and the actors that play them.

^So you see bullying hurts just as much if not more than being outed which Finn technically didn't do. Someone just overheard what he said and it wasn't like Britanna was that secretive to begin with nor was she upset by Finn said in the hallway. Please don't pretend that what Finn went through wasn't as bad as Santana because it was worse, she tortured him for 3yrs while you just finished saying that you had to go to thearapy for being bullied. Imagine how he feels and he hasn't even delt with his problems yet like you have because he's too busy bottling up his pain while he fixes everyone else's problems, that's very sad. But not as awful as what his real life counterpart has/is going through:(