Since watching the fantastic premiere f the seconde season of The Vampire Diaries (TVD), I’ve been mesmerized par the beauty of how the storylines were weaved together, and especially the Stefan/Katherine and Damon/Elena scenes. However,I’ve heard my fair share of anti-Damon/Elena talk about the premiere and especially the last scene in Elena’s bedroom. I’ll just quote some of the statements that seemed the most provoking to me and answer them.
“Damon came to Elena’s room for the wrong reasons – after Katherine broke his heart.”
What does this exactly mean?! Does it mean that Damon came to see Elena and try things with her to replace Katherine?! Havent we who actually managed to SEE and HEAR what happens on this montrer already agreed on that Damon never saw Elena as a replacement to Katherine?! Damon is not a stupid man; he knew immediately that Elena was the polar opposite of Katherine, and it has been exactly those qualities in her than made Damon fall in l’amour with her on the course of the whole first season. Her compassion for him, her empathy, the way she believed in the good inside of him, the way she thought he was worth saving.
Secondly, he came to Elena’s room because apparently, Stefan and Damon have agreed on taking shifts to watch over the Gilbert house jour and night to protect them from Katherine. Since Stefan spends the whole jour with Elena, he needs to rest at night, and Damon comes to watch over the Gilberts at night.
“I’m just doing my part of the neighbourhood watch.” – Damon
“Thank toi for looking out for us. For me.” – Elena.
So it is obvious par now that Damon didn’t come to her room at aléatoire just to try and make out with her because he was rejected par Katherine.
Thirdly, IF anyone was anyone’s replacemnt in episode 2x01, I’d say Katherine was Damon’s replacement for Elena and not the other way around.
Since the start of the episode, Damon has been upset with the fact that it wasn’t Elena he kissed, and THEN after Katherine seeking HIM out in his house, and not the other way around, he made out with her; partly because he hasn’t seen her for such a long time and because he has REALLY loved for all those years and a reunion with her would naturally lead to some kind of release of passion, but also PARTLY because he wanted to forget about Elena and her rejection of him. The Damon/Katherine make-out scene happened after Elena told Damon “I’m surprised toi thought I’d Kiss toi back” – a commentaire that really hurt him. So Katherine being there asking him to Kiss her, she was like “the Elena who WOULD actually Kiss him back” in a way. Like I said, partly this and partly that ;)
But it becomes even plus obvious in the scene between Damon and Elena at the Lockwood’s mansion where Damon said: “You’re scared. You’re worried Katherine will send me off the deep end. I don’t need HER for that.” That line alone makes it clear to me that even though Katherine’s words cut him deeply and hurt him badly, the only one who is capable of breaking Damon down completely was Elena, and that is exactly what happened in that bedroom scene. She rejected him, again, and that broke him and made him snap.
“Damon assaulted Elena sexually par forcing kisses on her”
This one had me laughing at first, but then I realised that some people either have a twisted definition of sexual assault, ou they have a special super-strict measure for anything related to Damon/Elena. If I was a woman who has suffered a sexual assault I would be damn insulted if anyone compared THAT traumatic experience with what happened between Damon and Elena in that scene. From what I saw, what happened was light-years away from assault. Damon’s Kiss was a desperate attempt at making Elena understand what he’s saying, to prove something to her. What happened was a one-sided Kiss from Damon and not a case of using violence to get a Kiss ou anything else sexual. When Elena pulled away from him, telling him to stop and listen, he DID stop and listened to her! Anyone who would try to assault a woman and force himself on her would not give a damn about what she had to say, he wouldn’t have stopped if that was his goal. Let alone, he took her hand and clasped it in his and he got a little hopeful smile on his face when she a dit “I care about you”. It was an emotional moment for him, not a moment where he was trying to get sex from her. It’s true that he kissed her against her wish, but he didn’t try to force her into anything par actually being violent ou using force on her. He kissed her once, and tried another Kiss later, until she stopped him and took his hands in hers, and he STOPPED again!
Damon is a vampire on human blood and he could have pinned Elena to that mur and taken whatever he wanted from her. IF he wanted that.
This is like a guy who tries to make out with his girl friend and she goes “NO!” and he tries again “Oh come on!” and she goes “NO!” again, and he STOPS right there. Did this guy assault his girlfriend?! No, I didn’t think so either.
Talking about violence and assault in TVD, why do I not hear anyone calling what Stefan did to Elena in 1x19 (Miss Mystic Falls) a violent assault? Stefan actually SLAMMED Elena in to a wall, screamed at her and punched the mur RIGHT beside her face to scare her. I’ve never called this scene an assault even though I could have, easily. I understand that even though it’s not okay to slam your girlfriend in to a wall, Stefan was ADDICTED to human blood, which to him is like a human addicted to drugs. People on drugs do crazy things they don’t want to do, and that’s what happened with Stefan there. The question is now why Damon/Elena fans can see these things, understand other characters and excuse some of their questionable actions while opposing fanbases cant do the same regarding Damon/Elena? God knows we’re no anges in the Damon/Elena camp, but I actually think that we understand other fans plus than they even try to understand our point of view. So suivant time, please try and look at the situation without your anti-Damon/Elena glasses on and try again ☺
“Damon would have raped Elena if Jeremy didn’t come in to the room”.
What could Jeremy have done to stop Damon from doing whatever he wanted to do? Jeremy doesn’t stand a chance against Damon as a human and he wouldn’t have stood a chance against him as a vampire. Damon was obviously not interested in sex, rape ou assault, because if he was, toi KNOW that he would have done it no matter what ou who walked in on him.
What the writers were trying to tell us with that scene is, that Damon is desperate for Elena to admit that there is something going on between them, even if that meant forcing a Kiss on her, because he thought that the first time he kissed “Elena”, it turned out to be Katherine so that’s why she kissed him back, and if he tried to Kiss the REAL Elena, maybe she WILL Kiss him back if donné the chance, and THAT was his true goal from the attempts at s’embrasser her. He was hoping that she would not be able to resist s’embrasser him once he had his lips on hers because of the feelings he is convinced she has for him, and that’s why he tried so hard.
It seems to me that with thee powerful scenes the writers are trying to tell us all that Damon/Elena are not just an obstacle for Stefan/Elena to overcome, to make them stronger, no. Damon/Elena DO have at least just as much meaning as Stefan/Elena, and that they definitely are a huge part of the show, while some of the fans who are anti-D/E are just trying to spin what we’re told and shown on the montrer around to make Damon/Elena look like nothing deep ou meaningful, like nothing serious, as if they’re not really going to have a real l’amour story.
And with that attitude towards the montrer and the pairing that is actually half the triangle the montrer is based upon, toi will just stress and upset yourself par watching the montrer and making a HUGE part of the TVD fandom upset and annoyed with your blind Damon/Elena hate.
Now to my dear Damon/Elena fans:
I know that a lot of toi feel broken hearted about those really heartbreaking scenes in the premiere, but believe me that these scenes and this start of the season is the BEST thing that could ever have happened to Damon/Elena and their relationship. Besides that I see a lot of Elena-hate around, not only from anti-Damon/Elena fans but also from Delena shippers, and that is NOT right! We l’amour them both, ou else we have no right to ship them together. Elena is a fantastic girl and that is why Damon fell in l’amour with her. Her hurting him in this episode doesn’t make her a bad person, because we have to try and see things from her perspective too. I always put myself in Damon’s shoes and then in Elena’s shoes. It doesn’t work any other way, friends. We need to understand them BOTH and l’amour them BOTH. ☺
First of all; Damon has finally revealed to Elena that he feels for her plus than friendship, and she shot him down par being honest with him, telling him that she wouldn’t Kiss him back and cheat on Stefan. What broke Damon was that he really is in l’amour with Elena and when she a dit “I’m surprised toi thought I would Kiss toi back”, she meant that she’s surprised he thought that she would ever cheat on her boyfriend, but he took it personally, he thought she was saying that she wouldn’t ever Kiss HIM because she wouldn’t ever have feelings for HIM. And it wasn’t what she meant.
Secondly, When Elena told him “It will always be Stefan” in her bedroom she told him what she thinks at that moment. We all know that no one knows what the future can bring, and neither does Elena. She just told hi the harsh truth, to make him listen to her, to get through to him, and make him stop trying to Kiss her, when she wants to tell him something. And I don’t blame her for telling him the truth simply because it is her right to be in l’amour with who she is in l’amour with at the moment. She cant control her emotions and feelings and her l’amour for Stefan right now, like she wont be able to control her feelings and l’amour for Damon LATER on. She’s still a human being with feelings, emotions and a cœur, coeur she cant always control, and we need to understand that even though we know and are convinced that she belongs with Damon and no one else. ☺
Now to the hardest part of it all: Damon killed Jeremy!
No matter if Damon knew Jeremy was wearing that ring that brings him back to life ou if he thought Jeremy would turn in to a vampire, it is NOT OKAY for him to kill Jeremy! BUT I don understand how and WHY he did it at the same time. I will never try to excuse Damon for killing Jeremy ou anyone else innocent, but understand Damon’s character and how he reacts to emotional blows like the ones he got in the premiere makes me understand why he snapped Jeremy’s neck. First of all, Katherine told him she has never ever loved him, making his mere existence pointless, because he has only lived for her, for the hope of finding her and living forever with her and nothing else has been on his mind. And then we have Elena, who is the girl he’s falling in l’amour with right now, who tells him that she can never l’amour him, because she doesn’t know any better. And knowing Damon, if there is anything that can break him completely it is being rejected from the one he loves, especially if that rejection involved choosing Stefan over him. That is what he has experienced his whole life, and it HURTS! His father, Katherine and now Elena l’amour Stefan plus than him. It really really hurts, and with Damon being a very emotional vampire who acts on his emotions, he will of course act on it. And the only defence mechanism he has to deflect hurt away from himself is death, destruction, blood and sarcasm. So with that in mind it is to be expected of him to do something terrible at that exact moment where he was not thinking at ALL. With him killing Jeremy he was trying to switch off that humanity switch that he has inside him to just stop hurting. It obviously didn’t work, so when he went accueil he wasn’t less upset ou numb, he was still hurting and he couldn’t believe that he had done what he just has done; i.e throwing the glass in to the fire, being angry and upset with everything and with himself.
Now to Elena, like I a dit before, she wasn’t trying to hurt his feelings, but only trying to tell him the truth in stead of leading him on and playing him like Katherine did. Isnt this why we all l’amour Elena so much? Because she wouldn’t never play Damon and hurt him like Katherine did. But when he snapped her brother’s neck in front of her eyes, and she did NOT know that he was wearing that ring, was the WORST thing he could ever do to her. Worse than killing her. To experience that horror, that FEAR when toi see your brother lying there on the floor lifeless and limp, how can toi NOT hate the person who did this to him? Of course she hates him – for now . If toi notice, the writers made a big deal of Katherine telling Stefan that “hate is the beginning of a l’amour story, not the end of it” – and then making Elena use the SAME word: HATE. This is a BLATANT, OBVIOUS déplacer from the writers to tell us all that: Damon/Elena are OFFICIALLY beginning now. Now they will SLOWLY, and REALISTICALLY, rebuild their friendship and their relationship, they will get the time to get over the heartbreak, all those negative feelings, and we are getting an AMAZING build-up, because remember; ALL fan-favourite EPIC AMAZING COUPLES have had a big amount of heartbreak and angst before they got together and people died of happiness. Believe me what happened is amazing for DE! The great and bigger the heartbreak, the sweeter and plus amazing the reunion will be. ☺
And I am a member of the Damon/Elena thread on Fanforum, and I swear to toi that we got 21 new Delena shippers ONLY after the premiere and because of those angsty heartbreaking scenes! That’s amazing! :D
Now, heads up, smile, and keep the faith and all the hope! Damon and Elena deserve it from us, to keep holding on to them. And toi will see that I’m right when the time for Damon/Elena is right. The writers will not disappoint over 60% of the fandom! They wont, and they know what they are doing. They are making this triangle REAL, making Elena fall DEEPLY in l’amour with BOTH guys, to make it a REAL triangle, and a REALLY fantastic l’amour story – especially for Delena because their story has been deeper than anyone else.
I hope that helped ☺