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This Is A Relationship Problem That I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!

I have this friend whom I have known for nearly two years and as time pasted we grew closer, as I started to help him get over his past and helping him learn to control his anger and even be his shoulder to cry on.I helped him and showed him l’amour in a way no one else could ou would. Over time he began seeing me as plus than a friend and fell hard for me, he tested me and told me his feelings which I was stunned par but also happy. I told him I'd l’amour to go out with him but I just didn't feel the same way and I can only hope they never did. He was disappointed but went along with it. And over a mois ou two one night I just a dit "Yes, I'll go out with you." Why? Because he sweet talked me that night (he did it before that too though) and my cœur, coeur was swept away par him. Ok so I went out with him but every time he touched me I didn't feel that tingle when toi touch some toi like let alone heat, when talks to me I don't stop and stare in his eyes, my cœur, coeur does pound at 100 miles an hour. I just don't get ANY of those feelings I did when I had my first and seconde crush. My cœur, coeur isn't in it with him, yet I tell him I l’amour toi and I act like the perfect girl friend when we make out and talk, he feels like he is heaven (and I KNOW he does because I see it on his face and I HEAR it in his voice) but me? Nothing. None of that happens to me. I want to l’amour him but I just can't for some reason! AND I DON'T KNOW WHY?!?!?!!!! We have been dating for a good eight months now and NOTHING has changed!!! I get the feeling we are not to be no matter how much I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't feel anything....I told him and he a dit they'd come but they haven't.
 Dhampires posted il y a plus d’un an
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Rainshadow999 said:
I think you're worrying too much about whether toi like him ou not. That wasn't supposed to offend toi but it is the truth…let me start over.

You're worrying too much :D
Actually you're either worrying too much ou thinking too much, stop think if toi like him ou not and get to know him more…maybe toi need plus trust from him?
Be happy, you're 14! (I checked your profile) That means toi shouldn't be concerned about your feelings for him unless they're happy-go-lucky!

I hope half of this made sense…I wouldn't know what to do either, if toi need plus help toi can always send me a message :)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I'd have to agree. Maybe if toi find out plus about him the feelings wll come? I don't know. Good conseil though. :)
PucksLady posted il y a plus d’un an
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