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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months il y a he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking plus then. The closer we got as Friends the plus I liked him. Two months il y a I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted il y a plus d’un an
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abs07 said:
Have toi asked God to give toi peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have toi tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If toi have & he gave/gives toi the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If toi really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if toi need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Well just be Friends with him if he doens't want to rendez-vous amoureux, date toi not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's Friends with toi then who knows mayba he will start to like toi back ♥
huddygirl2 posted il y a plus d’un an
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. toi have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out ou not, toi will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted il y a plus d’un an
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thank toi both, that really helped me:)
hottie23 posted il y a plus d’un an
nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken cœur, coeur but keep prayihng and get support from your Friends is the only conseil i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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thanks for the advice:)
hottie23 posted il y a plus d’un an
LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to toi after toi a dit toi like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes toi too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. ou maybe he only liked toi as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him ou confront him suivant time toi go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if toi offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thanks for the conseil but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still jouer la comédie that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, ou isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
hottie23 posted il y a plus d’un an
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