Give me toi conseil

About a an ago, my best friend since first grade dropped me like I was a hot potato. I stood up for her several times because she was being called ugly and nerdy par girls who were supposedly her friends- nowadays those are the people she hangs out with. I was so miserable because I felt like it was my fault and that I did something wrong. I tried asking if she was angry with me, but she always replied with, "No, why would toi think that?" After a couple months, we didn't even make eye contact with each other. She turned her back on me and I was absolutely crushed- I even lashed out at my mother, who had done nothing, because she brought her up. The best thing anyone can do in a situation like that is déplacer on, which is exactly what you're trying to do. Making Friends isn't easy- it takes time and dedication. What toi need to do is listen to conversations around you. If the people involved are talking about something you're interested in, toi rejoindre the conversation without a seconde thought. It can be hard, but it works out in the long run. Even if they completely reject you, it's better to have tried and failed than to not try at all. The biggest thing about making Friends is persistence- keep trying to find someone toi have common interests with, but don't be annoying. I always make Friends par making terrible puns; it almost always works. But toi need to remember to be yourself, and keep your values in mind. Let's say toi value not smoking, and your potential Friends are trying to offer toi a cigarette. Friendship is all about being able to be yourself with people who are close to you. If toi have to put on a mask in order to hang out with your 'friends' then toi need to rethink your priorities, and remember who toi want to be, not who your Friends want toi to be.

To sum it up:

1. Persistence is key- there's absolutely no guarantee that someone is going to immediately ask toi to be their BFF. In fact, the first time toi try joining a conversation, they'll probably completely ignore you. But that doesn't mean toi should give up.

2. Be yourself, and no one else- Real Friends will l’amour toi no matter what toi do ou believe in. It's so incredibly important that toi remember what toi as an individual want. If being Friends with someone keeps toi from being truly happy and shining as bright as toi should, you're in a poisonous relationship.

3. Remember that Friends will come and go- Nothing lasts forever, I've learned that the hard way. What matters most is that toi keep all the memories =, not just the good ones, and learn from your past relationships and mistakes. It might take some time, but sooner ou later, you'll look back and thank that person for montrer their true colors- if they hadn't, toi probably would have ended up hurt even more.